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Last week I wrote about some of the worst behaviours of women who sabotage relationships and drive men away. Questions like: How close is he to that female friend? How often do they hang out? Do they spend time alone? How sexy is she? Is she single? What do they do together? Does she flirt with him? If my guy is hanging out with another woman, frankly I wonder why he would rather spend his free time with her and not me. The idea of your boyfriend having platonic female friendships on the side of your actual relationship will always be tricky. What really matters here is how you are made to feel whenever your guy hangs out with a female friend.
Does your guy go to an effort to make you feel safe and loved at all times, and never give you reason to doubt his loyalty? Does he only hang out with women with whom he has no troubling romantic or sexual history that would give you cause to worry? Is he completely open and free when he talks about other women i.
To be frank, this is an issue for which I would never offer a concrete prescription because I just know that so many couples vary wildly in their rules for platonic friendships. They have friends with whom they see movies, drink cocktails, go to music concerts, and even whose house they sleep over. The friendship that turns one woman green with envy, another will shrug off and even happily encourage. Some will ask: Why does his old friend have to have coffee with him alone? Stephen Hussey helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.
Notify me of follow-up comments via e-mail. Ever since Dr. John helped me, my partner is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before. I highly recommends Dr. John to anyone in need of help. : Drjohnsoco gmail. I must spend a while learning more or understanding more. Thank you for wonderful info I used to be in search of this information for my mission. Nope not in my experience! Fucked his bf after bragging about me to friends and family and Need guy girl friends them.
Also the guy never came in my house to even look at the remodeled lodge. So idk how I was trying to do that! I need to know. I have three kiddos with their father yet their dad has always brought females over to visit. But since we had our 3rd baby, she is just under 2 years old… my husband has been hanging out with a 23 year gal and her boyfriends on probation.
For sure it was 2 times a week more often than not. Hmmm also this gal drinks heavily and my husband has always drank about 6 beers every night. I drink occasionally… and some times I will have 3 to 4 beers with them IF my kiddos are tucked away. Usually I let em stay Need guy girl friends 7ntil 10 or 11 and we all chat the kids and i but their dad is either on facebook with his back turned to us.
Or with her and for two nights he went to the bar with her and her friend plus her friend has me babysitting for increments… a toddler the friends… while they smoke. On her facebook which came up 8n my feed. I unfriended her and decided that she wasnt truly a good friend. I also asked why he felt like that. They are referring to a guy who is a felon who lives in the same apartment complex as my husbands 23 year old co worker and girl friend….
The girls said I wont let my husband and old bestie have friends and that im a fool for saying no. Also his 23 year old friend brought her boyfriend over and my mom remodeled our home for us… well the friend brought her bf over and said that we remodeled and it looked nice while we were all outside Also I said in response, yeah Zach her boyfriend do you want to come see our new floors. ALSO must say my three kids were inside and watching a movie… our house is around to sq ft. Its a camping lodge… we live in the country… any ways, the friend said also that I was trying to have sex with her guy when I invited him to see the remodeling… ugh The gal has no and is pushing for ppl to take her over to our house so I dont know how to say no with out feeling controlling.
Idk what to do. Or amniotic in a very strange circumstance? Do I have to accept this? If he is close with another woman, and wants to sleep with her because apparently they all do, then what exactly is the difference between her and me as the girlfriend? What if she has a crush on him? It would just make me feel completely worthless and like my relationship with him is exchangeable because he could just replace me with any random female friend of his.
I will discuss 2: In both cases they were well aware that I am in a committed relationship. It was that simple. She is extremely aware that I am in a relationship, and we rarely ever talk about relationships. I have sought to likewise develop a friendship with her husband so that he is aware that nothing is happening behind his back. Hence when coming from a woman — it tells me, when a man smiles at you and you converse with him — your knickers automatically fall down!
Personally — I have self-control, and an advanced education which allows me access to amazing words in the language — such as No! My husband was friends with a woman on facebook and at first I was absolutely fine with it, but then I noticed that he was constantly talking about her, how attractive she is, how intelligent she is…….
It really affected our life together. He became moody and argumentative. The final straw for me was when I went snooping on his FB Need guy girl friends I am NOT proud of but I needed some answers and he was telling her how much he loves her and he wished that they could be together she lives in the USA and we live in the UK and it broke us up. I left him for 6 months but he begged for another chance. We are back together and he has blocked her from his facebook but I feel the damage is done.
Although they never had a physical relationship, I still feel that he cheated on me. I am seriously considering a divorce. Your partner should be the one that you confide in and hang out with. End of. My boyfriend hang out with this girl who he have a sexual history with. That girl is only a close friend. Im really jealous of this girl and we fought because of this but we became okay afterwards. He told me to trust him and he did a promise on me. It depends to what extent the friendship overrides your relationship. People should be frank from the beginning about how liberal or serious they want to be.
If both parties are serious the guy other females should start to be less important as time goes by…I only speak from personal experience. But like the article says, it can be a tricky thing. I have close guy friends and lesbian friends I talk to almost every day. I love people in general. I love friendships. It gets you through the hard times in this world. Now with that being said, my boyfriend has met, works with, hung out, or whatever with all my friends.
My friends are a part of my life and he Need guy girl friends a part of my life, so I like to include him in knowing them and being around them. He txts a lot of women and a lot are exes. He got too close to a female friend and slipped up big time. Just leave. We got one life and it goes by so fast. Spend it with those who love you and are truly there for you.
But, I digress. This is quite a hairy issue and I speak from experience. No one has stated the obvious what if scenario. Hi, I was going out was a lady for a year. I noticed a change in our relationship when she continuously stated I love you and you make me feel safe then asked for the key back. Then she gave me the key back to help her with her cats. So I got the key back and one weekend said her 11 year old son was staying with her.
So I let her be and I had a wired vibe in my gut so I drove by the apt and found a suv parked in my spot. I was stupid and knocked on the door then walked in and found a guy in the apt. He claimed he went upstairs to tell her someone was here and she came down the staircase drunk and totally naked.
I walked up to see if her son was in the apt no where to b found went in the bedroom and found this guy sitting clothed on the bed. Is this woman nuts or just screwing this guy who she says nothing is going on due to him being her best friend.
When I ask her if he stays over she says no but his vehicle is there. I am or was deeply in love with her but she also claims she hurts the ones she lives due to her being a victim of child abuse in which she claims the father molested her from years of age.
I just normal chat in facebook with my female friends. Now what can I do? Shit I am confused. I married a man who has female friends that he has been friends with for most of his life. And I was OK with that until I learned about his young 25 year old friend with three small children. She happens to be unhappy in her marriage.
So immediately i was alarmed. All my senses were on fire. Come to find out he went to see this friend without me after I asked him not to be cause I felt uncomfortable with it. I thought to myself yea right? And if they do good for you. But why would you text a married 54 year old man ex drug addict that you have some stuff stuff stuff and then text you know I am just joking right?
I was mad when he told me he went to see her after he dropped me off for work. And alone too! Next I have two life long male friends. One is an ex boyfriend from when I was And the other is an ex husband of 9 years. I no longer desire these two males and I am legitimately concerned for them so I talk to them every now and then and I like to check in on them to make sure they are still alive. I have no sexual feelings for them at all whatsoever.Need guy girl friends
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